If you’re here, you’re already ready.
My coaching clients are…
Couples, men, women, & anyone in between
Often raised in evangelical/fundamentalist Christianity or other high-control groups
Single, coupled, married, non-monogamous, or divorced
Experiencing a wide variety of sexual challenges preventing pleasure & connection
In the midst of deconstructing, separating from a partner, accepting their sexuality, or exploring their interests & values outside of religious structures
Reaching for autonomy & self-sovereignty while entering new chapters in life
People from any faith tradition or cultural background, as well as all members of the LGBTQIA+ community, are welcome here.
An overview of my approach
In order to heal, there are four essential areas of harm to repair:
1. Cognitively: Examining the way we were programmed to think about sex, then learning new, helpful frameworks of understanding.
2. Emotionally: Examining the way we were programmed to feel about sex, then giving space for our feelings to shift and bloom in alignment with new beliefs.
3. Somatically: Examining the way our bodies were programmed to experience sex, then supporting our bodies through new discovery & growth, focusing on desensitizing your nervous system to the sex-equals-threat programming inside of you.
4. Relationally: Examining the way in which our relationships developed unhealthy dynamics around sex, then shifting those dynamics through new insights & communication.
Coaching vs. therapy: what’s the difference?
Coaching is not considered “medically necessary” like psychotherapy is, & is best for people who are functioning well day-to-day, but are looking for specialized help around a specific issue or topic.
No restrictions on session location: we can meet on video call remotely from anywhere, whereas therapy sessions must take place within the same state due to licensing regulations.
No health insurance complications: flat cash rate and negotiable sliding scale payments.
As a former therapist, I bring all of my clinical skills with me - they’re inside of me forever. Sessions are tailored to each person or couple’s needs.
My work has always been about helping people return to their own inner wisdom and create lives aligned with their truth.
Coaching allows me to do that in a way that feels more honest, liberating, and aligned — for both myself and the people I work with.
“If you are fearful of intimacy in any way– before, during, after marriage, or with any relationship in general ... I cannot recommend working with Halli highly enough. She is respectful, inclusive, affirming, and encouraging at every step of the way.”
— CLIENT TESTIMONIAL
